How to Manage your Anger?

Have you burst out because you get intimidated or disgusted by another person? Really as human beings we could easily get mad if something will go against our way which really affects our feelings. In my experience I was easily get angry and out of impulsion I have not controlled my emotion. It is in my nature that if anyone that made something wrong or unfair treatment to me or to another person that I knew I will surely react and burst out. I would consider that I was so unsuccessful after so many attempt to control my hatred.

If you win yourself over the enemy then you will become successful! The worst enemy is within us. We need to control our emotions. I always put myself in a bad situation every time I react out of my anger. There are some anger management school but why you go to school to overcome this uncontrollable emotion out of anger?

Here are some tips which made me more calm and better in controlling my anger:

1. Golden rule. Love others as you love yourself.
2. Always think about respecting others rights and always put yourself on their shoes. Why they have done it? What are their intentions? If I were on their position will I do the same for my sake?
3. Do not talk. It would be better to make no reaction at all than to utter bad words or reactions.
4.Buy some time before making your next move. By buying some time,it will have the less chance of making a bad decision.When dealing with business or anything be sure that the words that you may have committed will not go against you before you release your judgment or decision.
5. Think before you react. Make a comprehension and analysis always.You maybe wrong? Do not just rely on the judgment of others. Make a study if necessary.
6. If you have verified that the person has made wrong against you, you should always be diplomatic. After your own comprehension ask them why they have done unfair things to you.
7.It is not bad to be angry on person. As individuals and human-beings that have our own emotions we have different level of resistance in anger. Do not throw back to the person who is angry at you instead do not make any reaction at all if it would be best. Always be prepared to defend yourself if you might be in a risky situation. Be aware from the person who is also angry at you on how he or she handles the hatred.
8.Calm down, do not utter words, do not react and go home. Do not react if you are angry to a person. As what I have said buy some time and go home. If you cannot control your anger then release it in your own way by not hurting the person.

How To Court a Lady?

Different countries have different cultures and cultures will tell how a man court a woman. In other countries like Japan they are known that during Valentine's day the ladies are the ones who give flowers to the gentlemen. How I wish I am in Japan. Quite strange but for them it is their culture.In return after a month the Japanese guys will give flowers or white chocolates to the ladies.

In other parts of Asia ladies are still conservative and they are being courted by the gentlemen by sending off gifts such as chocolates, and flowers as common gifts especially during February 14.

If you are a guy and you would like to court a lady here are the following conservative and yet effective ways and tips to win her heart:
1. Show her importance to you.
2.Be consistent in knowing her activities, her likes and dislikes. Make sure that you do not irritate her. Do not just follow her wherever she goes. You should be wise and keep an eye with her by a distance.
3.Sending her chocolates and flowers are still effective.
4. Show your sincerity to your desired lady.
5. You should have a good conversation starter. Be natural and true to yourself.
6. Be open about you and your personal life to show your sincerity to her.Opening your personal life depends on the situation. Do not just open up which it is not the right timing.
7.Nowadays, most of the ladies prefer those men with big bucks. If you do not have money then you just show that you are the responsible guy that can be able to support her before she will say, "yes" to you.

Different cultures or countries may vary in how to capture the heart of a ldy.